Red, On a serious note, I hope you did not think anyone was prying into your personal stuff, and no need to toss it up either. BUT, Kudos to you for being open about your past and be welcome here anytime!! We all got bones, we all bury them in different places and different ways but we all got them. Our past is who we are, not good, not bad, just IS! Good luck to your future and please share your cooking good, bad or otherwise, great group here as I'm sure you've already found!!!