does anyone seriously believe nj has better pizza than ny? or ny better pizza than nj? Just how would one come to that determination?
I agree with your assessment on NY and NJ
I am happy to be living in Reno. The NYC metro area has changed so much in so many ways. The biggest change is the cost of living.
walter, I respectfully submit that you've been out of the area so long that you've lost touch with local trends. When I moved to nyc in 1982, i paid $800/month for a shared two bedroom with my college roommate in brooklyn heights which, at the time, was transitioning towards gentrification.
fast forward to today, brooklyn heights is completely out of reach for most recent college graduates but my two kids, a couple of years out of college, live in crown heights brooklyn and their rent? $800. actually, my oldest (26) is about to move and pay $1000 rent for an apt on prospect park...just not the part of the park I'd have considered safe but now a family neighborhood. and instead of eating pizza, my kids are eating inexpensive roti and doubles.
so yes, while houses in your hometown may no longer be affordable, there are plenty of towns in ny and nj accessible to the middle class.